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This weekend I began my Christmas shopping. It may only entail a few items thus far, perhaps one for myself too, but it's a start.

The mall, festively decorated in trees, garland and lights, only perpetuated my itching holiday spirit. I wandered into Pottery Barn, marveling at the variety of rustic, bright and shiny ornaments. For a moment I reminisced of Christmas in New York, blanketed with snow, until I heard a woman's southern twang declare, "Heavens to Betsy!" and was reminded I was in the south.

"Heavens to Betsy"- an expression of mild surprise- is just one of the many southern expressions I have become acquainted with since moving to North Carolina over five years ago. Here are a few others.

Cut the lights - A request to either turn off, or on, the lights. It's interchangeability lends to its popularity.

Fix me some dinner - "Fix" can be used to substitute cook, bake, or general make, as in a sandwich.
I'm fixin' to - Here, "fixin" is used to imply that the speaker is about to do something.

Bless your heart - An expression of sympathy or pity; oftentimes an acceptable substitution for whatever you would say that triggers a mother's "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."

Get up with - To meet or get together with someone; "I'm getting up with Johnny later."

Appreciate it - Although "appreciate" isn't limited to the south, the preceding expression is used interchangeably-and quite commonly-with "thank you".

hush puppies - Not necessarily a phrase, but a side item of fried cornmeal that comes with food like fries. I'm a fan.

Piddlin' - Similar to "messing", as in "He spent all his time piddlin' about, he didn't finish his homework."

Ya'll - A phrase I've grown accustomed to using as it is much shorter than "you guys".

Hankerin' - Meaning a desire, as in "I have a hankerin' for apple pie."

Good night! - My favorite expression of surprise used by my father-in-law. This phrase was validated when Scotty from American Idol used it on stage (more than once).

It's over yonder - It's over there

What are some southern phrases you know and love?




The best of the South

Growing up, my extended family was, quite literally, scattered all over the world. I always wished I had a large extended family living just down the street; many aunts, uncles, cousins. I finally got my wish when I married Chad. 

Chad's father is the youngest of seven; four girls and three boys. All but one live in the greater Charlotte area. All but Chad's dad have grandchildren of their own. The patriarch of the family, Harold Christenbury Keith, is alive and kicking at 96. For every celebrated moment, the entire extended family gathers together for a good homemade southern meal. Below are some snapshots from Father's Day.


Chad's Pawpaw's home.



His Pawpaw has lived in this house for over 50 years; this stump is indicative of the history.



Chad remembers his Mawmaw's hydrangeas reaching well above his head. Aren't these gorgeous?



Carolyn (aunt) prepares lunch



No meal is unaccompanied by sweet tea



Lindsay (uncle), Chad's father Wayne, Dick (uncle) have some of the best stories



Mawmaw's counted cross-stitching   
        

                              
Chad's great great grandfather (top), great grandmother (bottom)                 



Mawmaw and Pawpaw



Mawmaw and Pawpaw were married on October 16, 1935
                                                                                              

A date with the Queen....city


Some more photos from Saturday's night spent at Shakespeare in the Park. 

1. The entrance to the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art with a cute couple taking a stroll     2. The Ratcliffe's Flowers sign that reminds me of my mother's favorite bakery in downtown Utica     3. Ivy covered exteriors are just fun     4. The product of Chad's photography; I love the flowers in this one. Raised with a greenhouse in my backyard, I should know what they are, but I don't. I welcome answers.    5. This reminds me of Peter Pan and-conversely-William Blake's "The Chimney Sweeper".